As we’re in the month of New Year’s resolutions, it is important to take a moment to reflect on the past and the opportunities for growth that lie ahead. If one of your goals is to live more mindfully and empathetically this year, consider committing to regular journaling. While journaling is not a one-size-fits-all solution to following your full self-care plan, journaling can have several benefits for your psychological, emotional and relationship health. Recording your thoughts and feelings is often useful when navigating stressful experiences, revisiting interpersonal dynamics and reflecting on your evolving activities and perspectives.
According to the University of Rochester’s Medical Center, journaling can advance your well-being by: “helping you prioritize problems, fears and concerns, tracking any symptoms day-to-day so that you can recognize triggers and learn ways to better control them and providing an opportunity for positive self-talk and identifying negative thoughts and behaviors.” Jumpstart your journaling with these tips:
Carve out time. Like forming any other healthy habit, devoting time and energy to journaling will help establish the practice as a routine part of your schedule. Picking a specific time of day devoted to journaling may also help solidify the norm. Whether its daily, twice a week or a few times a month, consider making a goal about the frequency of creating your entries that effectively fits in to your calendar.
Let go of ideas of what you “should” write. You may be thinking – what is worth recording? How do I get all of my thoughts out on a page? What details should I include or leave out? By eliminating any parameters, you’ll be able to think more about journaling with a stream-of-consciousness mindset. This could lead to increased self-discovery and a more representative picture of what’s on your mind and your types of responses to different situations. There’s no correct or incorrect way to journal, and how you document different experiences is completely up to your preference.
Get inspired if you feel stuck. While journaling and other forms of self-reflection may create an uncomfortable feeling of vulnerability, there are several accessible resources and frameworks to leverage as prompts or inspiration. Your entries could focus on highlighting items such as: one positive thing you did for someone over the course of a day, an affirmation to yourself, or one memorable expression of gratitude from your week. Finding prompts online that resonate with you can help you progress and lead to new ideas. If you’re in a hurry, here’s a quick list of prompts that can help you process and write about something going on in your life:
- What’s on my mind?
- How should I have reacted in hindsight?
- How are things different now?
- What would I say to a younger version of myself?
- What am I grateful for?
- Who helped me?
Choose the right format for you. Journaling is often associated with physically writing down thoughts and feelings via a pen and paper. If picking out a new notebook isn’t something that gets you motivated, consider exploring different digital apps that offer online spaces for journaling. You could devote a specific section of your planner or calendar tool for journal notes and entries. If you prefer to learn and communicate more visually, you could opt to include forms of artistic expression to complement or substitute entries (e.g., photo collages, graphics, paintings).
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