A Place to Start, for you and “Every Sailor, Every Day”

By Rear Adm. Rick Snyder, director, 21st Century Sailor Office

Though September may be coming to a close, we must stay the course when it comes to taking actions to help our Sailors and families navigate stress, promote open communication, provide access to resources, and prevent suicide. Navy Suicide Prevention Month isn’t about 30 days of awareness; it’s about energizing deckplate and community efforts for the next 365 days, so that psychological health and wellness remain an ongoing priority—and an all hands effort.

Whether you joined your community to “Walk Out of the Darkness” this month, developed an inspirational Public Service Announcement, helped your shipmates and colleagues “bust work stress,” “Pledged to ACT” or offered reassuring words to others, your efforts made and will continue to make a difference in the lives of those around you—and in your own life. I encourage all to reflect on Suicide Prevention Month and use it as a place to start, for you and for Every Sailor, Every Day. To that end, I share the following blog post authored by Lt. Jay Morrison, U.S. Naval Hospital Guam, underscoring the simple, but impactful, things we can do to set a positive example for others and change our perspective during challenging times. It starts with gratitude.

For Suicide Prevention and Operational Stress Control resources throughout the year, visit www.suicide.navy.mil and www.navynavstress.com.

Expressions of Gratitude Go a Long Way
By Lt. Jay Morrison, U.S. Naval Hospital Guam

Expressions of gratitude have been linked to greater goal achievement, improved physical health, increased exercise, better sleep, and even an improved ability to overcome memories of potentially traumatic events. Here are some ideas for promoting gratitude.

Expressions of gratitude have been linked to greater goal achievement, improved physical health, increased exercise, better sleep, and even an improved ability to overcome memories of potentially traumatic events. Here are some ideas for promoting gratitude.

As we move through suicide prevention month, we’re reminded of the important warning signs to watch for in our shipmates, and to spot signs of trouble: increased substance use, withdrawal, recklessness, changes in mood or personality, and especially expressions of hopelessness or wishes to die.

We all face adversity and can help each other to be ready for the day that adversity rears its head. Cultivating gratitude is a great place to start.

We’ve heightened our sensitivity to shipmates who feel alienated, think they don’t belong, or have a sense they are a burden to others. We’ve pledged ourselves wholeheartedly to reach out to those in distress, or those who have had setbacks in their lives. We’ve pledged to ACT (Ask, Care, Treat). We’ve re-qualified with our weapons to fight suicide: our connections to our chaplains, mental health providers, Fleet and Family Support Centers, Navy suicide awareness resources and suicide prevention hotlines.

Our defenses are ready – our early detection tools for trouble are calibrated and our vehicles for rapid intervention well-maintained. As we move forward, we must commit as a team to building our offense – positively building health, happiness, and resilience in ourselves and those around us. We all face adversity and can help each other to be ready for the day that adversity rears its head. Cultivating gratitude is a great place to start.

Build Gratitude
Expressions of gratitude have been linked to greater goal achievement, improved physical health, increased exercise, better sleep, and even an improved ability to overcome memories of potentially traumatic events. Here are some ideas for promoting gratitude.

  • Before going to bed, list five things that happened in the last 24 hours for which you’re genuinely grateful. Think big (I’m grateful for seeing a good friend) and small (my favorite galley meal today – love that meatloaf!). It can be done mentally, or you can write it down.
  • For a limited time, give up something you take for granted. Even if underway or forward deployed, there’s at least a small luxury you enjoy every day. Let it go for a week and notice what happens. Do you appreciate it even more? Do you feel stronger for having gone without it at will?
  • Express gratitude to others often. Give three sincere compliments a day. We feel at our best when we help others to do the same. Express your appreciation for the actions of others. Be clear and specific. After a week, see what happens – are you more focused on people’s positive qualities? Do those around you seem more motivated? Are you more enthused?
  • Think flexibly about adversity. Bring a challenging experience from your past to mind, or a challenge you’re experiencing now, and write a list of the ways in which this thought-provoking experience has helped you to grow. This is not the same as simply “looking on the bright side” or denying that a bad event was, in fact, bad. It is about looking at stimulating experiences in their totality, flexibly from all sides, and focusing energy on the lessons learned, and the muscles strengthened.

Remaining mentally tough, resilient and ready takes effort, the same way we need three healthy meals a day, and a commitment to regular exercise, psychological strength takes continuous action and reinforcement. These activities are a place to start, for you and Every Sailor, Every Day.

For more ideas, see The Complete Guide to Resilience by Glenn R. Schiraldi, Ph.D.

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